At YŌU, we know that wellness is a very personal thing. And now that we’ve turned your attention to it, we hope you’re starting to think about what your wellness is starting to look like, too. Sometimes, though, we’re most inspired by others (or are we just nosey?!) so we’ve asked around to see what living well means to some members of the Shanghai community.
PP, 23
New media executive
& necessary couch potato
Wellness to me is all
about… doing my best
at work (and escaping
from it after)
“If doing well equals being successful at my job, then being well equally means finding ways to destress after work. Working in media is really hard. Every time there’s breaking news, I’m racing against the clock to be the first to get that story out. But what’s not news? Working overtime! Because after I’ve churned out the story, I still need to make sure it’s getting ‘likes’ on social media. To help us relax and deal with working under this constant pressure, my colleagues and I all have hobbies: some of us have pets, some are into fitness, and some like to dance it out. Well for me, I like to binge watch movies and TV series.
After I ‘LOL’ with the shows, I feel much more relaxed. When my mood has been reset, my physical and mental health will follow, then I’ll be ready to work hard again.”
Betty, 32
Education consultant &
baby daughter’s personal chef
Wellness to me is all about… cooking
nutritious food for my baby, no matter what
“Before having a child, my husband and I didn't cook much – we mostly ordered takeout. After having a baby though, I now have higher standards when it comes to food safety and nutrition. Mums, you know what I’m talking about? I’m always racking my brain to come up with different things to cook for my two-year-old in order for her to eat well. Now, even if it’s troublesome, I’ll learn to cook whatever my daughter wants to eat, because there’s nothing better than seeing her happily enjoying her food.
Because of her, my own eating habits have changed. I used to be a snacking machine. But now, I worry about my children choosing snacks over proper meals, so we don’t dare keep any snacks around the house. Sigh – it’s tough being a mum!”
Luo Xiansen, 28
Office worker & fitness enthusiast
Wellness to me is all
about… exercising daily
(and a surprise six-pack)
“What’s wellness? Staying fit! I started working out with my roommates in college. But after graduation, many of them stopped training and I’m one of the few from the crew who have kept going. At the beginning, I hit the gym and lifted weights, but now I am hooked on boxing, and I practice for an hour every day without fail.
I really enjoy sweating it out, and really love the feeling of sore muscles after a good workout – what is life without a bit of pain? My physical health is pretty good. I can tell; usually when the weather gets cooler and seasons change, people around me tend to catch colds, but I haven't gotten sick in several years now. Aside from a stronger immune system, I also accidentally gained a six-pack from training. My girlfriend says that’s a bonus!”
Auntie Feng, 53
Retiree & lover of dance & travel
Wellness to me is all
about… enjoying life in a
friendly neighbourhood
“Before, living well was about working hard and providing for my family, but now it means really enjoying life for myself, with my friends. When I first retired, I had so much free time. My family and children were afraid that I would be bored at home, so they really encouraged me to go and socialise with my peers in the community. I’ve known my friends in the Qiantan neighbourhood for decades – we’re so close and are like sisters, and I have been enjoying my retirement life with them. We have so much fun and life is not boring at all! We plan activities every day; we organise clubs and dance, travel and take photos together.
Our lives are much more fulfilling now compared to the time when we were all working. I am really enjoying my new healthy and active lifestyle.”
Chopin,
32
Master musician & life explorer
Wellness to me is all
about… living an
aspirational life
“As a musician, I am always aspiring to do better – a better practice, a better performance. So I also strive to live a better life, all the time. The Qiantan environment is very similar to the one I lived in before in the UK; it’s really international here. It is also very beautiful here: our music academy in Youcheng Park faces the Huangpu River, and the lights are lit up at night.
I love that there is a cycling track and swimming pool, along with cultural and entertainment facilities for some downtime. There are trendy places for young people, and iconic buildings such as the Oriental Sports Center. I like to spend time in the fantastic little cafes around the neighbourhood. Being in such an environment gives me so much inspiration to live even better.”
“I got into fitness when I was 17, but mostly concentrated on the body then. But when I was 25, I realised that I should also work on my mental health. Yoga was a game-changer because it let me not only work on my body, but also taught me how to be patient, calm, resilient, and more. I get enough sleep, eat nutritious food, meet with friends, have hobbies, and also work on self-improvement.
I listen to my body and give it the food that it needs; sometimes it needs some chocolate and it’s absolutely fine! I sleep 7-8 hours and drink enough water. Finally, I keep on learning new things to train my brain, and then I share my knowledge with others to also help them stay well. Qiantan, with its beautiful parks and open space, is the perfect place for me to do this.”
Tera, 38
Fashion influencer & stylist
Wellness to me is all
about… living
your true self
"I’m in fashion – so to me, my personal opinion matters most, and that includes what it means to live well. You’re not well if you’re not fully being yourself. And it takes confidence to do that – to not listen to what others say or think, and to march to your own march.
When you find your own balance, you will naturally exude a kind of self-confidence, a kind of calm beauty. Everyone has their own unique beauty, you know? But not everyone is able to find it and embrace it and own it proudly. As part of this, I think having your own style is important. For example, I don’t need to chase trends, but instead I explore my heart and find clothes that make me comfortable, both physically and mentally. Once you realise that your style is a direct reflection of your personality, that inner beauty and confidence will shine through for everyone to see.”
So as you can see, whether they’re young men and women in their 20s or a retiree finding a new lease on life, everyone has their own way of interpreting wellness. Now, what does your wellness look like?
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